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I Slept With Him and He Left Me

The foolish mindset of women in relationships

Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu
2 min readApr 30, 2020
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“I slept with him and he left me.”

“I did not sleep with him and he still left me.”

These two statements are seemingly what most singles ladies make in relationships, which has configured their mentality into believing that the "presence or absence" of sexual affirmation in a relationship is a trading capital to either keeping or loosing a good man.

Charles Freeman has this to say:

“This submission has engineered the minds of most young ladies into staying away from sexual affection with men, while some resulted to sleeping with their men.”

However you wish to view this, there is a general idea of men during the hunt for a to-be wife.

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Men generally do not pay attention to sex alone when they are ready to search for a life partner. (I said life partner ooooh 👂). His emphasis could have been on the ‘boobs’ and ‘ass’ all along, but whenever marriage thoughts starts to creep in, his views changes automatically.

You can meet a man today and sleep with him, while another lady does her’s after two (2) years, the truth is that the man will end marrying and respecting who he sees value in.

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Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu
Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu

Written by Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu

Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu is a distinguished global figure renowned for his research and works in artificial intelligence, vocational education, diverse technology.

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